Natthineethiti Phinyapincha, founder of TransTalents Consulting Group, along with Plaifah Kyoka Shodladd, Bangkok Pride Youth and Global Outreach Representative, and Nachale Boonyapisomparn, Vice President of The Foundation of Transgender Alliance for Human Rights, engaged in a vibrant panel discussion on the topic of “What after Thailand’s Marriage Equality,” during the Bangkok Post’s inaugural Pride event forum on Wednesday. The event was graced by the eloquence of captivating personalities, shedding light on the next steps post-marriage equality in Thailand. (Photo: Somchai Poomlard)
Nachale Boonyapisomparn, a beacon of advocacy within the transgender community and vice president of the Foundation of Transgender Alliance for Human Rights, emphasized that some laws still warrant updates following the passing of the equal marriage bill. Reflecting on the panel discussion’s theme, Boonyapisomparn remarked how the landmark legislation is but the tip of the iceberg, necessitating a concerted effort to realign the legal mosaic and cultural tapestries with the new legal horizon.
“For instance, although the bill transforms the terms ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ to ‘spouse,’ it remains entrenched in using terms like ‘mother’ and ‘father’ in the family law section,” elucidated Boonyapisomparn. “As a transgender woman, the thought of being labeled ‘father’ feels incongruent with my identity. I aspire to be recognized as a ‘mother’ in my own family,” she poignantly stated.
While Boonyapisomparn rejoices in the newly enacted law, acknowledging it as a hard-fought victory spanning two decades, she is acutely aware of the road ahead. Pertinent issues such as legal gender recognition, accessibility to hormone replacement therapy, and comprehensive gender-affirming care remain on the advocacy agenda.
Echoing similar sentiments, Plaifah Kyoka Shodladd captured the shared emotions of jubilation coupled with a realistic dose of acknowledgment. “This is not just about marriage alone; it’s about acknowledging and legitimizing diverse family structures,” Shodladd noted. “If the legal framework exclusively recognizes ‘mother’ and ‘father,’ where do people like us fit in?”
Natthineethiti Phinyapincha expressed her elation over being able to marry her partner without the need to relocate. She underscored the essentiality of substantiating the economic benefits of marriage equality laws. “We’re on a quest for data-driven proofs to illustrate why these policy changes are imperative for the LGBTQ+ community,” Phinyapincha articulated. “With robust data, we can highlight the opportunities awaiting society by embracing inclusivity.”
Delving deeper, Phinyapincha highlighted the transformative potential of having respected LGBTQ+ individuals in workplaces, aiming to shatter outdated stereotypes and augmenting workplace inclusivity. “Understanding your inherent power can enable you to foster change within your professional sphere and your mastery,” she asserted confidently.
The forum also included the poignant tale of celebrity chef Jitsak Limpakornkul, from MasterChef Thailand Season 3, whose partner passed away before they could marry. “He would have been overjoyed,” Limpakornkul reminisced. However, he faced tremendous challenges since, legally unwed, he had no rights over his partner’s funeral arrangements or inheritance. “It took me over 40 years to gain my family’s acceptance,” he solemnly recalled. “The struggle for equal marriage rights in Thailand centers on education and demonstrating the benefits of such approvals for society.”
Miss Trans Thailand 2023, Paulie Nataya Paomephan, echoed the forum’s spirit during a segment titled “Voice from Community.” Joining Limpakornkul on the panel, she passionately stated that love transcends all genders and is rooted in the respect of human dignity. She urged everyone to champion advocacy for one another and enlighten society about love’s equality. “Remember to make time for self-love too,” Paulie emphasized. “With a heart brimming with love, you can radiate warmth and affection to the world around you.”
It’s about time Thailand moved forward with marriage equality, but what about full legal gender recognition? Seems like they’re only halfway there.
Totally agree! Without complete legal gender recognition, many will still be left out. It’s a step, but not the final destination.
Give them some credit, it’s a big start. Rome wasn’t built in a day.
True, but let’s not get complacent. We need to keep the momentum going for further reforms.
Small victories add up. Still, Samira’s right—there’s a lot more to do before we can celebrate.
I respect the courage of these advocates. However, isn’t society moving too fast? Shouldn’t we pace ourselves with cultural changes first?
Cultural change follows legal change. Laws set the standards society should strive for.
But what if society isn’t ready for such rapid transformations? It’s a delicate balance.
Exactly, Diego. We have to push boundaries, yet respect societal readiness. It’s a tough mix.
Society will never be ‘completely ready,’ that’s why we need activists to challenge the status quo.
I’ve seen firsthand how marriage equality can uplift communities. My cousin married his partner last year, and it’s been transformative.
It’s nice to see personal stories reflecting broader societal changes. Blessings to your cousin.
Wonderful to hear! Every success story is a step towards normalizing LGBTQ+ relationships.
Just renaming ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ to ‘spouse’ isn’t enough. It’s a bandaid, not a solution. Full gender recognition is essential.
Isn’t it ironic how they still use ‘mother’ and ‘father’ in the family law section? Shows the gap between intention and execution.
Progress, but what’s next after marriage equality? Legal gender changes shouldn’t be this hard!
Yeah, it seems like a logical next step but surprisingly contentious. Resistance can be fierce.
I think the issue is deeply rooted in traditional values. Changing laws alone won’t cut it; we need societal education.
Economic benefits of marriage equality can propel societal acceptance. It’s all about that bottom line.
Financial arguments shouldn’t be the sole drive, but they can be persuasive. People’s rights should not depend on economic value, though.
Jitsak Limpakornkul’s story is heartbreaking. Imagine being denied rights over your partner’s funeral arrangements. How inhuman.
It’s stories like these that highlight the urgency for complete equality. No one should go through that pain.
So true, Lilith. Personal stories have the power to ignite the drive for change.
Absolutely! It’s a sharp reminder of what’s at stake here—basic human dignity.
Miss Trans Thailand 2023 makes such a valid point. Love transcends genders and deserves equal respect.
Paulie Nataya Paomephan is such an inspiration. Her advocacy for love and dignity brings a much-needed human element to the issue.
This forum seems like a pivotal moment for Thailand. Let’s hope it translates to concrete actions.
It’s great seeing Thailand making strides. More countries should look at their progress as a model.
Indeed. They’re setting an example. If Thailand can do it, so can others.
Progressiveness isn’t confined by geography. Kudos to Thailand for leading the way.
Marriage equality is fine, but why push for gender changes in law? It’s complicating things unnecessarily.
Change is inherently complex, Mike. But if it leads to a more inclusive society, isn’t it worth it?
Maybe. But tradition has its own value, too. Don’t dismiss it entirely.
Yes, but traditions can evolve. Flexibility can coexist with respect for the past.
Forums like these are clear indicators that the LGBTQ+ community is here to stay and grow. No turning back.
I marvel at the courage of these advocates, especially in a society that has traditionally been conservative.