Speaking at a lively panel discussion on the next steps after the landmark marriage equality legislation, notable figures gathered at the Bangkok Post Pride Every Day forum in Lido Connect Hall to discuss the path forward. The panel included Natthineethiti Phinyapincha, founder of TransTalents Consulting Group, Plaifah Kyoka Shodladd, Bangkok Pride Youth and Global Outreach Representative, and Nachale Boonyapisomparn, vice-president of the Foundation of Transgender Alliance for Human Rights. (Photo: Somchai Poomlard)
As Thailand celebrates the passing of the marriage equality bill, Nachale Boonyapisomparn emphasized the necessity of updating various laws to align with this progressive legislation. “While the bill replaces ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ with ‘spouse’, it still uses ‘mother’ and ‘father’ in the family section,” Nachale pointed out.
Drawing from her own experience as a transgender woman, she shared, “Under Thai law, if I want to have my own kid, I will still be labeled as a ‘father’. But I don’t want to be a father, I want to be a mother.” This poignant statement highlighted the gaps that still exist, even with the new law.
This legislation represents the culmination of two decades of tireless advocacy. However, Nachale acknowledged that critical areas, such as legal gender recognition, hormone replacement therapy coverage, and access to gender-affirming care, remain unaddressed.
Plaifah Kyoka Shodladd also shared mixed emotions, combining joy with an awareness of the road ahead. “While we celebrate this milestone, it’s crucial to remember that it’s not just about marriage; it’s about family,” she articulated. “If the law only recognizes ‘mother’ and ‘father’, what space is there for queer families?”
Natthineethiti Phinyapincha, founder of TransTalents Consulting Group, expressed excitement as she and her partner no longer need to relocate to marry. She stressed the economic benefits of marriage equality, which can help bridge the gap between social change and financial impact. “We need data-driven evidence that illustrates the benefits of these policy changes for LGBTQ+ individuals,” she added.
Natthineethiti also underscored how increased visibility of respected LGBTQ+ figures in the workplace could shift public perception. “Once you realize that you have the power to effect change within you, you’ll see how much it boosts your workability and expertise,” she encouraged.
Celebrity chef Jitsak Limpakornkul, from MasterChef Thailand Season 3, touched hearts with a personal anecdote. Unfortunately, he and his partner never had the chance to marry, as his partner passed away before the bill was passed. Despite his sorrow, Jitsak sees a brighter future for the next generation. “Even though I missed this opportunity, I am happy for those who can now marry and live freely.”
Facing legal hurdles after his partner’s death, Jitsak had no rights to his partner’s body or assets. “It took 40 years for my family to accept me,” he said, adding that education and visible action are crucial in gaining broader acceptance of equal marriage. “It’s all about demonstrating the benefits of what has been approved.”
Miss Trans Thailand 2023, Paulie Nataya Paomephan, added a heartfelt message, reminding everyone that love transcends gender and is fundamentally about respecting each other as human beings. “Advocate for others and educate people about the equality of love,” she urged.
In closing, Jitsak offered a message of self-love. “Do not forget to find time for yourself, love yourself more,” he said. “When your heart is filled with love, you can spread it to everyone around you.”
It’s fantastic to see marriage equality in Thailand, but I agree with Nachale that there’s still a long way to go. The law should reflect the reality of diverse family structures.
I think people are asking for too much too soon. Changing one thing at a time is better and makes it easier for everyone to adapt.
Sure, but the current situation creates practical and emotional issues for transgender parents. It’s not just about patience; it’s about urgent justice.
Boonyapo88, you must realize that lived experiences can’t wait for gradual change. People’s lives are affected NOW.
The economic benefits of marriage equality are often downplayed. Increased recognition leads to better financial stability for families and boosts the economy.
Absolutely, Chris. Moreover, increased LGBTQ+ visibility in professional spaces enriches the workplace culture.
Yes, but let’s not make this all about money. It’s fundamentally about human rights and dignity.
I agree with John D. While economic arguments are useful, the moral case for equality shouldn’t be overshadowed.
Of course, it’s both. Financial security and social acceptance often go hand in hand.
Jitsak’s story really hit me. It’s heartbreaking to think that even in death, there are so many inequalities to address.
True, and his call to educate people is so important. Education can change prejudices ingrained in our society.
And it starts from home. Parents need to teach their kids about respect and equality from an early age.
Absolutely, User123. Education isn’t just the school’s job; it’s everyone’s responsibility.
I understand the need for updated laws but can’t we just take a moment to celebrate this massive step forward?
Celebrations are definitely in order, but let’s not lose momentum. We’ve come so far, why stop now?
Yeah, I think celebrations and pushing for further change can coexist. It’s a moment to reflect and push forward.
Alright, fair point. Let’s celebrate today and gear up for the challenges ahead.
I can’t believe Thailand is ahead of the US in some respects with marriage equality. Really shows how far we still have to go.
Yeah, it’s surprising. Makes you wonder why some countries struggle more with such straightforward issues.
Cultural differences and deeply rooted ideologies can make progress slow in some places.
True, but shouldn’t basic human rights transcend cultural differences?
I’m nervous about how long it will take to address issues like hormone therapy and gender affirmation surgeries. People are suffering now.
That’s a huge gap that needs immediate attention. Lawmakers need to listen to those with lived experiences.
I fear those issues will be shoved to the back burner now that marriage equality is in the spotlight.
That’s my fear too, but we need to keep pushing. They can’t ignore us forever.
How can anyone argue against recognizing diverse families? Love is love, people. Get over it already.
Not everyone sees it that way. Some people are deeply rooted in traditional beliefs and they think they’re protecting something sacred.
OldSchool, traditional beliefs shouldn’t be an excuse to deny people their basic rights.
Exactly, George T. We aren’t asking for special treatment, just equal treatment.
Paulie’s message of love and respect is universal. If only more people listened, we wouldn’t have these issues.
Agreed, but real change takes time and effort. Talking about it is a good start.
I worry that in rural areas, these legal changes won’t make much difference. Society’s attitudes need to evolve too.
It’s going to take grassroots efforts. Families and communities need to be patient but persistent.
Recognition and acceptance in employment are crucial. Visibility in the workplace can change public perception at a fundamental level.
And it benefits the economy too. Companies with diverse workforces tend to be more innovative and perform better.
I am just so proud of Thailand for this huge step. It gives me hope for other countries as well.
Not to be a downer, but isn’t it too soon to be hopeful? Other countries aren’t necessarily going to follow this lead.
The gender binary in the language of the law needs to change. It invalidates non-binary and genderqueer identities.
The language should be more inclusive, no doubt. If we’re going to be progressive, let’s be all the way.
What about the healthcare needs of LGBTQ+ folks? That area needs urgent reform too.
Totally! Access to hormone therapy and gender-affirming care should be a basic right, not a luxury.