In a tale of both heartbreak and defiance, Ying, a 42-year-old woman from Sing Buri in Thailand, is fervently seeking justice as she wrestles with the betrayal of her soldier husband. Her story may sound like the stuff of soap operas, yet it’s all too real. Ying’s husband didn’t just cheat; he took infidelity to a new level entirely by suing her for divorce, propelled by his desire to live openly with his newfound harem of mistresses.
Ying’s journey to reclaim her dignity led her from Sing Buri to the doors of Saimai Survive, a nonprofit organization known for supporting those in need of a powerful ally. It was there she laid bare her saga, expressing how her heartache intensified after her husband openly pursued divorce, a legal dagger following his years of philandering.
The saga began back in 2014 when Ying and her beau officially became husband and wife on March 11, 2018. Yet, geography and family duty kept them apart. Ying’s commitment was to her elderly mother, whom she cared for devotedly. Meanwhile, in Saraburi, her husband’s career as a soldier turned out to be less demanding than his extracurricular activities.
The relationship’s treacherous waters became clearer as Ying noticed her husband’s increasingly rare visits and emotional distance. Unbeknownst to her, her husband was entangled with a Saraburi local as early as 2015, enjoying the coziness of army welfare accommodations designed for families, not affairs.
Not one to limit his romantic endeavors, he branched out in 2019. This time, it was a mistress from Prachin Buri who shared her life—and a Pathum Thani condominium—with him until her untimely passing from a congenital disease. But the mourning period was fleeting, as soon after, a new love interest in Ayutthaya prompted him to take a loan in Ying’s name, a deceit topping off a wedding with yet another lover.
The deranged tale didn’t end there. A woman from Saraburi emerged as the fourth mistress, flaunting their relationship across social media platforms and pressuring for Ying’s dethronement. True to unscrupulous form, Ying’s soldier husband even diverted funds intended for their household to buy land for this mistress, further embedding her in his life.
Despite enduring these repeated affronts, Ying, who battles leukaemia, has been left to fend for herself on an income earned from dishwashing—a far cry from the financial pampering given to the mistresses by her very own husband.
Ying’s only plea was forgiveness for a man she never expected would take things as far as formalizing their separation in court. But when the divorce papers arrived a mere five days after her mother’s funeral, it was a final betrayal she couldn’t ignore. Her attempts at discussing the situation with him have been met with silence.
With little recourse, Ying appealed to her husband’s superior in the army, only to find indifference. Enter Saimai Survive. Ekkaphop Lueangprasert, the NGO’s founder, vowed to champion her cause. He committed to appealing to the commissioner at her husband’s army premises, aiming to spotlight both the intimate treachery and the dubious divorce proceedings surrounding this affair-fueled dilemma.
Ying stands as a testament to resilience, unswayed by a convoluted web of betrayals. Her pursuit of justice, driven by both love and vengeance, continues as she seeks accountability for her husband’s vanquishing actions. In her story, many may find echoes of their own struggles, and perhaps the courage to face their adversities with an equally steadfast heart.
I cannot believe this story. It’s so unfair to Ying! Her husband is a true villain.
I agree, Anna. Ying should not put up with any of this. It’s disgusting that someone could be so greedy and heartless.
Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon. Some people think they can just live without consequences.
It’s sad but true. I’m glad there are organizations like Saimai Survive to help.
I think Ying’s story highlights a bigger issue of power imbalance in relationships.
Something seems fishy here. How can someone live with so many mistresses and not get caught earlier?
Skeptic, believe it or not, some people are excellent at compartmentalizing their lives.
I think the army lifestyle gave him that room. They usually involve traveling and being away, which could cover these affairs.
It’s amazing how much Ying endured. She deserves better support from society.
Absolutely QuietObserver, I hope this case helps change how people view infidelity and its consequences.
Honestly, Ying should sue him for all he’s worth. Fair is fair—take him for everything!
That might be easier said than done, Maximus. She needs the right legal backing.
True, but sometimes you have to fight fire with fire!
I don’t get why Ying is still in love with him. If he treated her like this, she should just move on!
TimmyT, love isn’t always logical. It’s complex and sometimes hard to break free from.
I guess everyone’s different. I still think she deserves someone better.
The real issue here is how the military handles personal affairs. They should be more proactive!
I’m so fired up reading this! Thinking about Ying washing dishes while he’s living luxuriously with his mistresses is infuriating.
Yes, it’s so unfair! She worked hard, and he just abused her trust.
Exactly, Gina. I hope she finds justice and peace one day.
This kind of story makes you wonder how selfishness can thrive unchecked in such close-knit communities.
Maybe the focus should be on systemic issues instead of individual blame games.
KeenKaren, individuals need to be held accountable for their actions too!
Ying’s story is heartbreaking. It’s high time women had better legal and social support.
I completely agree, Jill. It’s stories like these that push for change!
Honestly, I think Ying should have exposed him sooner. Public shame could’ve helped her case.
It’s easy to say that, Luke, but living through it is a different story. It can be terrifying.
This isn’t just about Ying. How many others might be suffering silently in similar situations?
This is disgraceful conduct for a soldier. Ying should appeal to military officials higher up.
Military codes are strict. Hopefully, higher-ups will take note if external pressure mounts.
It’s gut-wrenching to see Ying’s health battles compounded by such personal betrayal.
Reading this makes me think, what role does gender expectation play in situations like these?
So sad that Ying’s own health is being overlooked in all this.
Agreed, Tina. Health not just physical but mental is crucial in such crises.